Also, you need to be reasonable and work with the people and situation you do have.
Be what you’re wanting everyone else to be.
Listen and empathise.
Have integrity. Be accountable. Own that you choose this for your self. Always learning. Not about resentment and what you think others should be doing. No one is perfect. Accept that it’s ok you and others don’t know everything and will and do make mistakes. About possibility for what kind of world you want. Strata is community and a microcosm.