Hi Matho,
Jimmy is right this is becoming a too common occurrence lately.
With respect you have been given some direction on this issue below, however it’s not professional or legal advice. The wrong strategy or decision may see your Sons problems just made worse.
Go and get legal advice, the Flat Chat web site sponsor is a legal firm that has experience with this issue, your first interview is normally at no charge so give them a call.
Chris Mo’ane
GMD Integrated Consultancy Group.