@Flame Tree said:
…If the Committee won’t drop a casual note … you can do yourself via a (anonymous?) general letter …
Why is it the committee’s problem? If only one person is bothered, they might conclude that it is not a matter of reasonable general concern.
Anonymous notes on any topic are unpleasant and can be corrosive of a sense of community. If something is bothering you personally, have the courage of your convictions to put your name to it. Better still, make less of a big deal of it by talking to the people concerned directly next time you see them face to face. You might be pleasantly surprised by their reaction or they might tell you to piss off but you can modulate your response appropriately in real time.
BTW. Lady Humphrey’s immediate reaction to the original post was “This is sexist and it’s about control.”