Heavens above, you two, Considerate Band Fair and CBR, you seem so inconsiderate, selfish, self-centred and self-obsessed.
All by-laws, Acts and house rules aside and no matter what the hour, if your disturbs others it’s just not fair.
Can’t you imagine, yourselves, being woken up after being asleep for a couple of hours on an otherwise peaceful night, by the sound of a couple of half-drunk people talking (more loudly than they realize) and the smoke drifting into your bedroom which may only be a few feet from the other home’s balcony?
You don’t think it would worry you? Prepared to consider that your behaviour, whatever it is, may be making others uncomfortable? Upsetting others?
Why not take their complaints on board, say you’re sorry and mean it. And get a grip.