I’m wondering about the reasoning behind the one-Lot-one-gate-fob rule.
Perhaps there is only one parking space per unit and in the past units with 2 fobs have been parking more than one car inside? (thus the second car/s were taking others parking spots, or parking in inappropriate places)
If that guess is close to correct then only allowing one fob per Lot would seem to be a reasonable, practical response to limit (eliminate?) the problem.
willy1 – I assume the issue for you is that in the past you and your wife have both had your own sets of keys, each with its own fob for the gate. Perhaps the solution is to instead keep the gate fob in the car, rather than on your car keyring.