Thanks for posting this though I’m not going to be able to be any help, however I will watch this thread carefully.
Sensitivities and straight-out allergies to some of the modern and usually cheap’n’nasty perfumes in washing powders, cleaning agents and even actual ‘perfumes’ / fragrances is very common and be debilitating. I suffer from this and always have to be careful. Something has to give.
I don’t know what you might do. Good luck.