@mikobrand96 said:
… now i have been labelled a trouble maker. All because I am interested in where the money is going.
Welcome to my world.
When relationships are cosy and things are done on a nod and a wink, it’s very irritating for those concerned when someone new comes along and lifts the stone to see what’s wriggling underneath.
Of course, it’s a different mater when a problem becomes obvious later on and everyone runs for cover.
You are entitled to know how and why your money is being spent but just back off a little and make it seem more like an inquiry and less like an accusation.